It’s okay to say “no” if you change your mind. We allow you to change majors and change direction and change clothes, with no repercussions other than possibly wasted time. If his touch is too forceful and his breath too hot and his weight too much, you are not bound to your previous decision. If your mimd is screaming and your nerves are sizzling, they are as valid then and now as they were five minutes ago, when you were saying yes.
It’s okay to say “no” if you were flirting. Batted eyelashes and sly smirks and witty words do not form a map to your uncharted territory. Your playfulness does not relieve them of their self control. Your allure does not diminish their responsibility to be respectful. The only path you led them on is that of the unknown, of which the rules of the road still apply.
It’s okay to say “no” if you’re unsure.
It’s okay to say “no” if you’re embarrassed.
It’s okay to say “no” when they tell you it isn’t okay to say “no.” — When It’s Ok To Say “No” (via albinwonderland)
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The whole show was an attempt to say that humanity will reach maturity and wisdom on the day that it begins not just to tolerate, but to take a special delight in differences in ideas and differences in life forms. — Gene Roddenberry (on the “Star Trek Philosophy”)
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The Sexual Objectification Checklist -
1. Does the image show only part(s) of a sexualized person’s body?BMW
2. Does the image present a sexualized person as a stand-in for an object?
3. Does the image show sexualized persons as interchangeable?
4. Does the image affirm the idea of violating the bodily integrity of a sexualized person who can’t consent?
5. Does the image suggest that sexual availability is the defining characteristic of the person?
6. Does the image show a sexualized person as a commodity that can be bought and sold?
Red Tape Shoes
Not sure if I’ve reblogged this before but it’s worth it if I have because so many people get this wrong.
so grossAn excellent list with examples to better understand sexual objectification.
perfect. Use this the next time you think tom hiddlestone is being objectified.
Lunsford, in case you check my blog again, here is more info for you to read up on.
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“He could have paled in stasis” oh god dying.
lol remember when people said Amon/Noatak got pale from wearing a mask.
DUDE YES and people got angry at me for saying that was wrong and then screencapping ppl’s ACTUAL SKIN in the ACTUAL CARTOON to show that that was an actual, deliberate, frame-by-frame painted thing that had actually happened
My god I didn’t even make it to page 10 on the Khan tag before I got a bingo:
#I’ll never get why it HAD to be Khan #he could have been any of the other 72 popsicles and still be a great villain #they could have built Khan up and had a shot of him at the very end next to a refrozen Cummerbund (via bigmamag)
LET ME JUST SAY
IF YOU DON’T ALREADY THINK THIS WOMAN IS AN AMAZONIAN PRINCESS
YOU ARE DOING IT TOO WRONG FOR WORDS.
ahhhhh fuck please
NO ONE WOULD MAKE ME HAPPIER
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lol don’t worry! You did! So you’re moving out there?
yeah, at least for the summer. I really don’t plan on coming back to Alaska, but we’ll see. I’m going to try to get into AMDA as well, and, obviously, I want to work in the industry, so Cali seems like the place to be.